“What do you do?”

Whether I am at a business networking event or just hanging out with my friends at a bar, somebody (or everybody) will always ask me a scary and sometimes boring question - “What do you do?” 

 

This kind of question generally comes at the beginning of a conversation with a new person or at a lull in an ongoing conversation.  It is both a way for somebody to get some context as well as find something familiar to talk about so the conversation can continue.  Personally, I like to ask ridiculous questions like - “What is your SECOND-most passion in life?” 

 

Now if somebody asks me “what do you do?”  I tell them exactly what I am currently doing – “I’m retired” or “I’m searching for my soul” (those of you that know me understand why I can’t put my most favorite and third answer on this blog!).  Generally the shock value of these statements is completely worth quitting my job over.  What I am trying to do is create an answer that engages people in conversation and makes me the center of attention (which I really like).  Most people I talk to think I’m lucky or want to know how/why. 

 

The bottom line is – when you are having a conversation with somebody and are trying to keep them engaged.  Don’t follow the standard patterns of conversation (“what do you do?”) but try to talk about something you are passionate about!